homesteader or prepper

Maybe it’s just me, but for a long while, I was leery of the unknown entity known as the “prepper.”  You probably know the old joke format: I’m a homesteader (sensible, thrifty); you’re a survivalist (fleeing to the country for personal safety); he’s a prepper (building an underground bunker, stockpiling seeds and weapons).

…I first heard the word “prepper” when someone asked me if I was one.

He was an absentee landlord doing some yard maintenance on his property next to ours about two years ago.  Pleasant chap.  I was impressed that his whole family pitched in, from the two-year-old up.  He and the family took on the job of dismantling an old shed in our yard for a small fee, and they did exactly as they promised, leaving no trace behind.

At the time, Donnie and I were in a spate of canning and that seemed to intrigue our neighbor.  Finally he asked, either slyly or shyly, I’m not sure which, “Are you guys ‘preppers’?”

I had to confess I had never heard the word.  Mind you, Donnie and I are not big TV watchers and our main interests—canning, bluegrass, biking and road trips—are not exactly on the cutting edge of anything.  But I was writing a book about homesteading and I knew instantly that “prepping” was something I ought to find out more about.

Our neighbor hung out for another few days cutting trees and dragging away branches, during which time, we had our oil tank moved to expedite the removal of the shed.  The neighbor was at pains to tell me, in guarded tones, that I needed to have a special security lock installed on the tank in case “they” tried to steal the oil when “it” happened.  He was never very specific but it didn’t take rocket science to figure out that the one who posed the question about prepping was probably a prepper.

So I asked him, shyly but slyly, if he knew any preppers I could interview for my upcoming book.  He suddenly became evasive, telling me about someone he knew who “might be” a prepper but probably wouldn’t be willing to talk to me about it.  After that, it seemed as though he didn’t come around as much and our brief friendship waned.

But by then I was on it, researching the prepper M.O.  A pretty thorough Internet search revealed many prepper websites and communities.  But they were not very accessible.  In fact, the prepper organization in my home state had such a complicated process for joining up that I was not able to successfully contact anyone except a kindly webmaster who promised to vouch for me if I ever did get past all the passwords and into the system.  But I never did.

By that time (mid-2012) the Doomsday Preppers reality series on the National Geographic Channel had been airing for a few months.  I tuned in to a show about a couple living in a semi-truck, constantly rolling.  It was pretty clear that this couple were ipso facto not “homesteaders;” in fact, if they were representative of preppers, always on the move, then it was less likely than I thought that prepping intersected with homesteading, despite both having some common roots in the “survivalist” movement.

A vague picture was beginning to form in my mind of what prepping might consist of as we were barreled along full speed ahead to 12-21-2012, the date when some people were sure the world would be ending, based on “evidence” from the Mayan Calendar.

They were wrong, as it turns out.

See, there have always been end-of-the-worlders, probably since, like, the beginning of the world.  Preppers, I reasoned, were just another version of the cartoon guy pacing the streets holding the sign proclaiming, “the world is ending.”

I was wrong, as it turns out.

With the exception of my mysterious neighbor, I had yet to meet up with a genuine, card-carrying, dyed-in-the-wool, self-acknowledged prepper, even online.  But I continued to brood about who and what a prepper might be.  As my speculation increased, the prepping ethos was slowly morphing into something a lot more accessible, even a tad more mainstream.

Still, the stereotypes kept getting in my way…until I read a real prepper book by a dedicated prepper, and began to see where and how my aspirations could and did intersect with those of preppers…..

As a book reviewer, I was lucky to get a copy of Jim Cobb’s The Prepper’s Book of Disaster Readiness.  It was in reading and reviewing this useful manual that preppers gradually came into focus for me.  The more I thought about them, the more like us they seemed.  Didn’t we have 68 jars of local-orchard apples, and 35 jars of homegrown tomatoes (read my Homestead article, “Rotten Tomatoes”, for the reasons why we had so few quarts of tomatoes this year) and, especially for Donnie, about 40 jars of Virginia peaches, all neatly lined up in the larder?  And hadn’t I put a first aid kit and an ice scraper in both our cars, and filled a bottom drawer full of warm, fuzzy work clothes and heavy socks, just in case?

Just in case what?  Was I—shudder—thinking like a prepper?

After reading Jim’s book, I decided to ask him a few questions about himself.  He cheerfully obliged, wiping out my early sense that preppers are paranoid.  In fact, that’s one of the questions I asked him:

Is there a point at which prepping and paranoia intersect?  Jim’s reply: “I don’t know if it is so much paranoia as it is just being keenly aware that disasters can, and will, affect almost everyone at some point in their lives.  About 5-6 years ago, there was a massive blizzard that hit south-central Wisconsin.  Despite numerous warnings ahead of time, hundreds of drivers were stranded on an interstate highway overnight due to the weather.  This is just one example, and a very minor one at that, as to why it is important to be prepared for life’s little (and not so little) emergencies.”

In TPBODR, Jim says that his own first lesson in preparedness came when his wife had her first baby: what he did and did not take to the hospital for that event prompted him to develop what he calls a Get-Home Bag.  In the GHB, you should carry a water, food, fire, and shelter.  Really, these are the basics of survival anywhere and anytime, and having them, or the wherewithal for them, in your car in a portable sack is a great idea.

What’s in your GHB?  I have a bicycle in my car.  I like to think that trumps a lot of smaller items as useful equipment in emergencies.

Jim told me that his maternal grandmother grew up on a farm: “Her family was very rural, very poor (at least in terms of material things).  It was probably her influence that was my first exposure to the idea of setting things back for a rainy day.”

He also recalls, “My childhood home was on the outskirts of a rather small town.  I spent hours on end traipsing through forests and marshlands.  Having a keen interest in Native Americans, I read everything I could get my hands on about how they lived.  I’d then go out and try to duplicate the skills and woodcraft I’d read about.  As time went on, I started making my own ‘survival kits,’ using trial and error to discover what worked and what didn’t.”

He was obviously a fearless kid, because instead of burying his head in the metaphorical sand, he met the end-times head on. “When I was about 12 years old, I purchased a copy of Dr. Bruce D. Clayton’s book, Life After Doomsday.  I read it cover to cover, several times.  Around the same time, I read Jerry Ahern’s series, I”  Pretty dark stuff for a kid, and Jim admits that, “At that point, my fate was sealed, in a sense, to be a prepper/survivalist.”  Jim works as a private investigator and recently has become a writer—of prepping books.

Besides working and prepping, Jim comes across as a pretty average sort of guy.  He likes to read, relax with his family, and maybe shoot some pool.  But it’s because he cares about his family that he preps.  He doesn’t know where the term “prepper” came into being—”I’m going to say it was around ten years ago, or so, that I first heard the term.  When it first started to be used, it seemed to a more politically-correct version of “survivalist” or “survivalism”.  Nowadays, due to the impact of various TV shows and other media, the terms seem to be interchangeable.  It used to be, at least in my opinion, that preppers were more concerned about the common types of disasters (power outages, severe weather, etc.), where survivalists were preparing for the extreme end-of-the-world scenarios.  That dividing line has blurred considerably in recent years.”  For him, prepping is just “the act of actively making preparations for your family’s needs in the event of a crisis.”

There’s no doubt that the unreal reality-shows have played a role, for good or for ill, in bringing the notion of prepping into mainstream consciousness.  Cobb puts it this way: “On the one hand, the popularity of such shows has allowed us to make great strides in getting more people interested in being prepared for emergencies, which is a great thing.  But, most of those shows are so over-the-top… I think the overall message gets clouded.”  In fact, Cobb asserts, “the media has managed to taint the image of a ‘prepper’ to a degree that anyone who uses that term in self-reference is automatically seen as someone fearing the end of the world.”

Prepping, by the way, is not the same as hoarding, although there may be a point of cross-over.  The older generation that came up during the Great Depression developed a hoarding mentality, as do many poor people with a lick of sense.  Who knows when you might need those jars?  Those apple crates?  That spare tarp?  Grandmother’s cast-iron skillet?  Of course, hoarding can develop into as, Cobb describes it, “an overriding compulsion to collect and keep items that have little to no value, whether monetary or otherwise,” whereas the prepper is concerned with “the collection and stockpiling of food and supplies that, even if a disaster were to NEVER happen, can and will still be used.”  Some people might not see the distinction as clearly as Jim Cobb, but I take the point that preppers have an avowed purpose in stockpiling useful material (like squirrels do), while hoarders just want to keep stuff for the comfort of having stuff (like packrats).

The author builds several scenarios that might make any of us think—hard—about how prepared we are for disaster.  Let’s look at some in detail.

Flu outbreak.  Between 1918-1920, hundreds of thousands of healthy young Americans and others around the world died of what was called Spanish Influenza.  The flu’s second wave, in which the virus mutated, was as devastating as the first.  More people died of Spanish influenza in its nine-month peak than died of the notorious Black Death in Europe in four years.  Although we like to think (note “like to think” as opposed to “actively feel convinced”) that modern science has eliminated, or can eliminate, any new flu virus, consider the strange outbreaks of other diseases that pass across the headlines: meningitis, pneumonia, diseases that suddenly crop up with no apparent cause.  Because we live in more crowded quarters than we did in, say, 1918, the spread of infection is more likely, and yes, it can infiltrate the country folk, too, despite our best control efforts.  The spread of disease causes panic, panic causes unrest, and unrest causes certain behaviors that might make us want to reconsider our PREParations.

Power outages are another increasingly problematic scenario, often following natural disasters like flooding and freezing.  Are you ready for a protracted outage?  And—thinking like a prepper here—if you have a generator, is it protected from possible looting?…..

…Because civil unrest is another scenario that preppers brood about. Civil unrest can be the ugly stepchild of any disaster, especially if the disaster and its effects cause lengthy dysfunctions of the systems that usually tie us together.  If we don’t believe that civil unrest is possible, we have only to look at the aggressive behaviors spawned by something as apparently benign as pre-Christmas shopping!

Cobb recommends a 3-D strategy: Deter, Delay, Defend.

Deter: Make your home, your personal and family living space, however you define it, look too secure for a looter to bother with.  We lived in Mayberry for a few years, so charmed by the friendly, moral base of the community that we never bothered locking stuff up.  Then we had a break-in.  “Surprise, surprise!” as Goober might say.  Now we have motion sensor lighting and a coded lock.  That’s Deterrence.

Delay: Warning systems, like the motion sensor lighting, can produce the Delay, giving you time to assess and, if necessary, move to the next level…..

Defense: this is what happens when the first two systems break down.  Plenty of homesteaders have weapons, and many are prepared to use them against menacing humans as well as annoying, tasty deer.  No one can advise you about this, but we all need to consider it seriously.

Cobb recommends doing what you do about home protection without talking about it to those outside your 3-D system.  That way fewer people will know about it and be able to take advantage by hacksawing the locks or hacking the codes.  His general take on this level of preparedness, let us call it preparedness with attitude, can be summarized like this: “Think of it like this: if I’m prepared to survive and outlast a nationwide epidemic of some nasty disease, I’m sure prepared to survive and outlast anything else that rises to that level of severity.”

Cobb, and we all, know that prepping is not a simple concept, any more than it is a simple practice.  One thread leads to another.  One thing he is clear about, though, is that prepping is not a selfish effort: “I don’t think trying to work towards keeping your family and loved ones alive is selfish at all, quite the opposite, in fact.”  And, “If more people actively prepped for emergencies, it would certainly allow first responders and other aid agencies to concentrate on helping those who truly need assistance in times of trouble.”  Sounds sensible.

When I was reading The Prepper’s Complete Book Of Disaster Readiness I decided to ask a few friends to chime in with questions they would like to ask a real-life actual prepper.  Here are the two questions I liked best with Jim Cobb’s responses:

Q1:  Why do you want to survive (not just how)?

A1:  To put it simply, survival beats the alternative by a long shot.

Q2:  How do you choose who survives with you?

A2:  I take my responsibilities as a husband and father quite seriously.  I feel it is my job, my duty, to protect them and keep them as safe as I can.  While I have no guaranteed way to decide WHO survives with me (assuming I’m among the survivors to begin with), I feel it is the responsibility of every parent to do whatever is within their power to ensure the safety of their children.

By a long way around, it seemed I had bridged, to my satisfaction, the divide between homesteading and prepping, and found it to be less like a narrow rope-bridge over a bottomless chasm, and more like a rainbow bridge, filled with many shadings of color, some mysterious murky depths, and a few twinkling stars.  The debate between the pepper way and the homesteader way may go on forever, but as for me, I’m going to STOP (another of Jim Cobb’s acronyms): Sit down, Think, Observe, and Plan.


  1. SUBJECT: This is an “Information Sheet” about the “prepper’s cookout” in Goochland County, Virginia from Wednesday June 23 to Friday June 25.
    Dates of the event at Groundhog Flats (20 miles West of Richmond Va.)
    The actual day of the event is Thursday June 24. Any attendee can arrive and can depart on that day, June 24th. But the place will be open and overnight accommodations provided on Wed. night June 23 and Thurs night June 24th. Friday the 25th will also be available to continue any of the activities before departing by end of the day Friday June 25. (Some attendees might be heading up next to the Polyface Farm event near Staunton Va., which is about 1.5 hours away going West on Route 64 towards Charlottesville).
    So the main day is Thursday but you can make your plans any way you want, whatever is convenient for you, to enjoy the sights and camp-out from Wednesday June 23 through Friday June 24 and any times in-between. For example, to arrive on Wednesday and not depart until Friday. Or arrive and depart on Thursday. Or arrive Wednesday afternoon and depart Thursday evening. You get the idea. The schedule at the Virginia site is flexible for you and the site will be open Wednesday through Friday.

    The location is about 20 miles West of Richmond, Va., just across the Goochland County line in an area known as Manakin-Sabot (“Manakin”). Manakin is mostly rural and farmland, although in the past 10-20 years metro Richmond has been moving Westward and developments are springing up almost every month it seems. Still at the location of this Prepper’s site, the neighbors are a few recently built houses with a large expanse of farmland, usually corn and other crops rotated during the season. In the other direction is a large pasture of cows, who at times remind you at night that they still have grazing rights with their “mooing”.

    The location, called “Groundhog Flats”, is part of what used to be a large pig and dairy farm started at the turn of the century and into the 1900s. The property consists of the main farmhouse on 3 cleared acres, with 14 shed type outbuildings, two rows of what used to be chicken and pig stalls, a pump house building (no longer used) and a smokehouse where the pigs were hung. The farmhouse was built in 1896 and its heating system is still 3 fireplaces. A property manager does live on-site, but no one is currently living in the farmhouse while it is undergoing a (slow) restoration.
    Legend has it (as told by a longtime family living in the area for ages), that a large oak tree…. still standing near the house …. was the site of a Confederate camp during the Civil War. This was one outpost of sites defending the City of Richmond, 20 miles away. If true, one of the campfires at this June’s event can be celebrated as the renewal of a Confederate campfire some 150 years ago.
    In short, Groundhog Flats is 3 acres of open space with a decent amount of isolation, and with a commardarie to be enjoyed whether under the sun or under the stars, or both. The lectures on prepper crafts, the “hands on” demos, and the mingling and engaging in a variety of activities, will be enjoyed in a mostly rural farmland environment.

    The location is ideal for our group because it is “out of the way”, many woods and farm fields, and you can do pretty much whatever you want without being disturbed.

    What to expect……
    Some canopies and tents will have been put up. Cots, sleeping bags, makeshift beds, maybe on the ground, and whatever else we come up with to make sure you have a comfortable sleep. But this will be rustic. No Hilton Inn here. Although yes, a modern day bathroom, and shower, will be available. At least one campfire, with marshmallows and hot dogs for those who want to relive their boy scout/girl scout days, and a small fish pond where about 15 good size outdoor gold fish call home. With some lanterns and string lights strung around, we will not be in total darkness.
    Educational subject matter
    To mention just four examples: There will be at least 4 good size solar panels around for experimentation and making connections, with examples of powering survivalist equipment (making coffee; powering makeshift communication systems; lighting). Ham radio will be taught and demos given. An M.D. and R.N. team will present the best for first aide care in the wild. An expert will demo a solar powered hot water heater for the home. And a farmer will showoff his food right-from-the-farm as we all enjoy it while learning of prepper food basics. A brief description of some topics and subject matter to be covered in presentations will be sent out at a time in June closer to the dates of the event.
    Input from attendees is invited and welcomed on any subject you would like to (1) make a presentation on, or (2) hear someone else give information on it. With such a mixture of backgrounds in a group like this, …even though joined together by the common ground of a “prepper spirit”,… we would like input in advance of anyone’s favorite subject, your curious technology or hearing of experiences of interest to be discussed or demonstrated. This way it might be possible to bring in someone with specific expertise in that area, or a prepper attendee can be added to the training agenda, and this is why we’d like to get any input of this type in advance.

    Otherwise, in addition to the educational aspects, this will be a great gathering place of like-minded people enjoying casual time outdoors. The discussions in such a relaxed and casual environment often lead to things that we can pursue and exchange thoughts on well after this is over and we are back in our home territory.

    Grills, Drinks and Food
    Of course, there will be multiple grills fired up; Virginia Bar-B-Q, hamburgers and all the dressings; and coolers packed with ice and your favorite beer and wine refreshments. We ask that you bring your own as much as possible as this is not a money making event (notice that there is no admission fee). The property owner is not able to offer an unlimited amount of free refreshments and meals. Nonetheless, we will try to accommodate as much as possible. Plus there is a grocery store (and a Dollar General and other friendly stores) just 2 miles away, so you do not have to lug food and drinks during your drive or other travel in getting here. You can pick up whatever you want from the local stores when you get here and as your appetites click in.
    In other words, plan on buying nearby what you need when you get here, and then be surprised when you are able to get more freebies at the event itself.
    Contact information
    As property owner and welcoming host, I live in Richmond and my name and cell phone are: Michael Morrissey: 804-502-4468. Email is: You can contact me about any concerns, questions, new thoughts (always want that) and anything else. The address in Manakin-Sabot, Va. 23103 will be given to each attendee at the time he/she registers.
    Adding to the attraction of the event is the broad backgrounds of people who will be attending. So far registered are people coming from Japan, Colorado, Tennessee and Massachusetts, as well as from within Virginia. Short bios of presenters and attendees will be available to the extent they are available from particicpants. This will enhance the probability of finding “similar interests” among the group to explore…. to know a little about the people we will be camping with. On this point I add this brief personal information.
    I developed an interest in the prepper technologies from my close friend Marvin Motsenbocker, who will be a presenter at the event coming here from Japan. We both met from common work in the patent law field in Wash DC. My past work has been in electrical engineering (B.S.) and law (J.D.). I was an Examiner at the US Patent & Trademark Office, and did Defense Dept work for government agencies in Wash DC. I now live in my hometown of Richmond and my work is in patents and in applying new technologies to come up with useful devices/products/systems.
    Major drive routes nearby
    Route 95 brings you into Richmond from the North or South, and Route 64 goes West out to Groundhog Flats and beyond…. about 50 miles more to Charlottesville, Va.
    This is necessary in order to keep track of things and of people. No one will be admitted who has not registered in advance. In other words, no strangers will be allowed on the property. A stranger is anyone who is not on the list of registered attendees.
    Registration here consists simple of you emailing me that you plan to attend and receiving from me a reply email that welcomes you to attend. If you can give the dates of your arrival and departure that will help in planning for your overnight accommodations. Last minute adjustments to the actual dates are no problem. We just want to have an extra pillow for you at night instead of a log for your head.
    “Groundhog Flats here we come!”

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